Rabbi Yehonasan Gefen – Parsha Shelach – Spying After Our Hearts

“And they will be tzitzis for you, and you shall see it and you shall remember all the commandments of HaShem, and perform them; and you shall not spy (loh sasuroo) after your heart and after your eyes after which you stray.” [1]  Parshas Shelach ends with the third paragraph of the Shema.  That paragraph discusses the Mitzvo of Tzitzit and continues with another fundamental Mitzvo – not to follow our hearts and eyes. The Sifri elaborates on the meaning of these words. It explains that following one’s heart refers to meenus (herecy), whereas following one’s eyes refers to immorality.[2]  The simple understanding of the Sifri with regards to following one’s heart, is that this is the source for the prohibition against espousing beliefs that are antithetical to Torah. 

My Rebbe, Rav Yitzchak Berkovits Shlita, points out that there is a great difficulty with this understanding.  Without the Mitzvo of ‘loh sassuroo’, there are a number of Mitzvos in the Torah that prohibit heretical beliefs:  In the first of the Ten Commandments, the Torah commands us to believe that HaShem is the only G-d, who is all-powerful, created and sustains the whole universe, and has no beginning or end.[3]  The next Mitzvo exhorts us not to follow any other gods, which means that we cannot attribute any independent power to any force in the world.[4]  In the Mitzvo of ‘Shema’, the Torah further commands us to believe in the oneness of HaShem.[5]  The attitudes that the Torah forbids in these Mitzvos are the main beliefs that represent heresy.  Accordingly, it would seem that the Torah has already sufficiently instructed us to avoid heretical beliefs.  What is the Mitzvo of loh sassuroo coming to add?      

Rav Berkovits answers that the other Mitzvos are instructing us to have basic philosophical ideas on an intellectual level; for example, a person must believe intellectually that there is one G-d who created the world.  However, an intellectual realization is not always sufficient to ensure that a person will adhere to the fundamental tenets of Jewish thought.  A person may intellectually recognize these truths, however, his emotions or his physical desires (taivas) may cause him to act in conflict with his beliefs.  In this vein, Chazal tell us that a person only sins when a ruach shtus (spirit of irrationality) enters into him.  This means that his actions contradict what he rationally knows to be true.  The Mitzvo of ‘loh sasuroo’ commands us to avoid this pitfall.  By telling us not to go after our hearts, the Torah is instructing us not to allow our emotions to cause us to act against what we intellectually know to be true.  This is not to say that the Torah views emotions in a negative light.  This is certainly not the case and there is great room for expression of emotions in Torah.  However, when emotions are not channeled through intellect, the consequences can be disastrous.  The Torah is the vessel through which we are supposed to mold our intellect and filter our emotions through a prism of the Torah outlook.[6] 

The incident of the spies provides us with examples of the correct and incorrect approaches with regard to following one’s heart.  Here too, the root word, ‘lasur’, (to spy) is utilized by the Torah.  HaShem instructed Moshe to send people to spy outthe land.   Moshe instructed the spies about which features to look for in the land.  Included amongst his instructions he told them to observe the produce of the land, in order to see whether it was fruitful or not.[7]  He further instructed them to take note if there was a righteous man in the land, whose merit could protect the people there.[8]  With these directives, Moshe was alluding to the spies that they should observe the land with a certain disposition, one that was based on Torah hashkafa.  He was telling them to view everything that they saw with spiritual eyes, so that large fruit would be viewed in a positive light, and that the significance of tzaddikim there was an important factor.

Sadly, the majority of the spies did not heed Moshe’s instructions.  They did indeed see large fruit, however they chose to interpret it in a negative fashion, and conveyed the message that this demonstrated that the land was strange in that it produced oversized fruits.[9]  They were guilty of a further misinterpretation when they saw a large number of funerals taking place in the land.  They used this to show that the land destroyed its inhabitants, when, in truth HaShem caused large numbers of deaths so that the people would be busy with funerals and not notice the spies.[10]  What was the cause of their skewed attitude?  They fell prey to the pitfall of following their emotions.  They lacked trust in HaShem, and therefore felt fear at the prospect of having to enter Eretz Yisroel.  Because of this flawed attitude they viewed everything they saw through a distorted vision.[11]  The only spies who overcame this test were Kalev and Yehoshua.  They viewed everything they saw in a positive fashion because they were strong in their trust in HaShem – this prevented them from allowing any fear they may have had, to overcome what they knew to be true. 

We have seen how the Torah connects the lesson of the spies to the Mitzvo of ‘loh sasuroo’.  Theten spies who sinned provide us with the example of how going after one’s heart leads to sin and ultimately heresy.[12] The Torah imparts a further lesson as to how to avoid the pitfall of interpreting what we see in a detrimental fashion.  In the very same verse in which the Torah tells us, ‘loh sasuroo’, it discusses the Mitzvo of tzitzis.  “And they will be for you tzitzis, and you shall see it and you shall remember all the commandments of HaShem and perform them; and you shall not spy after your heart and after your eyes after which you stray.”[13] The verse tells us that tzitzis will somehow remind us of the Mitzvos and this in turn will enable us to avoid following our heart and eyes.  What is the connection between tzitzis and ‘loh sasuroo’?  Rashi points out that Tzitzis remind us of the 613 Mitzvos because the gematria[14] of ‘tzitzis’ is 600; in addition, there are eight strings and five knots – the total of these three figures is 613. In this way, by looking at tzitzis a person is supposed to go through this sequence of thought that will bring him to connect the tzitzis with the 613 Mitzvos.  The obvious problem with this is that most people will see tzitzis and fail to make the connection that the Torah seems to expect they should make.  It would have seemed to be more effective to command that tzitzis say a big ‘613’ on them, so that everyone will automatically be reminded of the 613 Mitzvos when they see it!  The answer is that the Torah is teaching us that one must strive to be the kind of person who sees the world in such a way that a mundane item of clothing such as tzitzis will lead him to a sequence of thought that will remind him of the 613 Mitzvos.  When a person brings himself to this level, then, as a consequence he will be able to observe the Mitzvo of ‘loh sasuroo’ because he will not see the world in a skewed manner based on his emotions, rather he will see it with spiritual eyes. 

We have seen that a constant theme of the Parsha is that the way a person thinks, will play a decisive role in how he interprets what he sees.  It is no easy task to become the kind of person who sees everything with spiritual eyes, however the first stage is to strive to make one’s intellect and emotions in line with the Torah’s directives.  The more saturated a person is with the Torah’s teachings, the more he will be able to emulate Kalev and Yehoshua.  May we all merit to guide our emotions to bring us closer to Torah.


[1] Shelach, 15:38.

[2] Sifri, Shelach, 15:38.

[3] Yisro, 20:2.

[4] Yisro, 20:3.

[5] Va’eschanan, 6:4.

[6] See ‘The Six Constant Mitzvos’, Artscroll, Mesora, a sefer based on the shiurim of Rav Berkovits on the Six Constant Mitzvos for more on this topic.

[7] Shelach, 13:20.

[8] Rashi, Shelach, 13:20.

[9] Rashi, Shelach, 13:23.

[10] See Birchas Peretz of the Steipler Gaon, zt”l who explains why their interpretation was illogical.

[11] This is the simple explanation of the sins of the spies.  For deeper explanations, see Ramban, Sfas Emes and BenYehoyada (discussed in my other essay on Parshas Shelach).

[12] See Rashi, Shelach, 13:31 and 14:4, who demonstrates that the spies espoused heretical views and caused the people to do the same.

[13] Shelach, 15:38.

[14] Numerical value.

Rabbi Yehonasan Gefen – Parsha Emor – The True Definition Of Kiddush Hashem And Chillul Hashem

The famous Mitzvos of Kiddush HaShem and Chillul HaShem feature in Parshas Emor:  The Torah instructs us: “And you will guard My Mitzvos and do them, I am HaShem.  And you will not desecrate My holy Name, and I will be sanctified amongst the children of Israel, I am HaShem who sanctifies you.:[3]   The terms, Kiddush HaShem and Chillul HaShem are liberally used, sometimes when one disagrees with the action of his fellow, yet in truth, the Rambam gives three applications of this Mitzva.[4]

The first is that a person must be willing to give up his life rather than transgress one of the Three Cardinal Mitzvos if a non-Jew forces him to transgress with the threat of killing him.  Likewise, one must to transgress any Mitzva when he is forced to transgress it in order to undermine the Torah; and the same applies in a shaas shmad (time of decrees against the Jews).    If one gives up his life in any of these situations, then he fulfils the Mitzva of Kiddush HaShem.  Conversely. If a person fails in this nisayon and commits the sin when he should have let the non-Jew kill him, then he transgresses Chillul HaShem.[5]

The second, less well-known aspect of Kiddush HaShem is when a person resists his temptation to sin, or performs a positive Mitzva purely for the sake of HaShem.  Conversely, if a person sins not out of temptation, but in order to anger HaShem, then he transgresses Chillul HaShem.[6]  It is important to note that these cases apply even when nobody else is present.

The final application of Chillul HaShem is when a person acts in a way that may not technically be forbidden but they are not fitting for the person at his level and onlookers see that a person representing Torah is acting in an inappropriate manner.  The Rambam, based on Chazal,gives examples of a Talmid Chacham not paying of his debts immediately, being too light-headed, not greeting people with a sever panim yafeh (smiling face), and getting into arguments.  Conversely, when such a person speaks nicely, smiles towards people, does not reply to insults, does business with integrity, acts beyond the letter of the law, he does a Kiddush HaShem.

One area that the Rambam does not enumerate as an example of Chillul HaShem is when a person proudly observes Mitzvos even when onlookers will be angered because he is keeping the Torah[7], or mock his actions.  The following story demonstrates this idea brought by Rav Yeshaya Horowitz.[8] 

When Rav Ben-Tzion Fellman was a child, he lived in Tel Aviv and proudly wore his tzitzis out even though he was surrounded by many non-observant people.  Sometimes people stopped him in the street to ask about them but it didn’t discourage him from wearing them.  However, Ben-Tzion faced a difficult upcoming challenge – in the words of Rav Horowitz: “Summer vacation approached.  The Fellmans arranged to go to Beis Bosel, a government-run guest house in Tzfas.  When Ben-Tzion asked his friends about it, though, they told him that some of the people who went there didn’t keep Mitzvos.  Ben-Tzion was worried about spending a week among people who didn’t know a thing about tzitzis, who might make fun of him.  He considered tucking in his tzitzis, just during the vacation, and went to ask the Chazon Ish what he thought.  ‘The Rema answers the shailah at the beginning of the Shulchan Aruch’, the Chazon Ish told him.  He got up and took the first volume from his shelf.  Opening it, he pointed to chapter one, paragraph one, and invited Ben-Tzion to read along with him: ‘Do not be embarrassed by people who scorn avodas HaShem’.  With his other hand, he took Ben-Tzion’s hand.  He got up and they paced back and forth in the room holding hands, singing the Rema’s words. ‘You hear’, he told Ben-Tzion. ‘Continue to wear your tzitzis in the open.  Do not be embarrassed by people who tease you for your avodas HaShem.

In later years, Rav Ben-Tzion spoke about how the Chazon Ish’s words gave him the strength for the rest of his life, to engage in avodas HaShem without worring about what others thought.”

We have seen the true definition of Kiddush HaShem and Chillul HaShem.  May we merit to only sanctify HaShem’s name in private and in public.

[3] Vayikra, 22:31-32.

[4] Rambam, Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah, Chapter 5.

[5] See ibid, Halachos 1-9 for all the details of these halachos.

[6] Ibid, halacha 10.

[7] There may be situations where keeping a chumra adversely affects others, and it may be preferable to do the Mitzva in a way that is normally less ideal.  One application of this is praying in a minyan on a plane, when it will disturb other people sleeping, or block the aisles, and bother other people.  In such situations, many Poskim rule that it is better to pray alone in one’s seat.

[8] ‘A Treasury of Stories’, Rav Yeshaya Horowitz, Part 1, pp.197-198.

[9] Emor, 24:12.