Delayed Gratification

Psychiatrists are well settled on the idea that delayed gratification is the proper approach to assume for success. Though it’s the harder road it offers the greatest rewards as man’s toil for anything trumps his easy acquisition of it.

As Shavuos is here, we must analyze our approach to the receiving of the Torah in the past and how we want to relate to it in the present.

Initially when G-d gave us the Torah we said Naase Venishma, but only for the written law (according to one modern commentator) not the oral one. G-d had to threaten us with a suspended mountain to guarantee our acceptance of the oral law. In essence we wanted instant gratification, as the written law is a “what you see is what you get” document. (Rabbi Genack quotes Rav Soloveichik as saying that one receives reward for just merely reading pesukim of the written law without understanding them, whereas regarding the oral law once must understand what they are learning in order to receive any awards for learning it.)

However, later in history by Purim, we chose the better route of delayed gratification when we lovingly and out of free will accepted the oral law. Interestingly, the Megillah describes our acceptance as “Kimu Vekiblu – we held it and accepted it,” similar to our original terminology of “Naase Venishma.” Indeed, we took on instant acceptance with the notion that “later work” involved in uncovering the oral law’s depth was worth it.

The Zohar says the Torah is given anew every day. The question then is why Shavuos is named “Zman Matan Torateinu” as every day we accept it. My cousin, Rabbi Yakov Nagen, Rosh Kollel at Yeshiva Otniel, answers that indeed every day the Torah is given but we have such outside noise and distractions that we can’t hear it. For “Matan Torah” G-d took care of the noise as the world was silent at that time.

We just read Parshah Bechokotai. Famously; Rashi says that we must be Amel Be’Torah. The Gematriah of Amel (ayin, mem, lamed) is 140. This equals the Hebrew word “Kam” (kuf, mem) “rise up.” Today we must take the initiative and silence all noise and distractions that prevent us from tuning into the Torah on a daily basis. And we must face it with an attitude of delayed gratification knowing that all feelings of accomplishment come through hard work.

Reb Chaim Kanievsky shlita, the master of the oral law, says Moshiach is on the doorstep and that it is destined to come the year after Shmittah where we are now. We must rise up to delve into the most satisfying body of thought ever presented to humankind; the oral law.

 

 

A Chiddush For Gemara Bava Kamma And Shabbos

Why do chazal refer to the melachos on Shabbos as 40 minus one – why not just say there are 39 melachos? Perhaps 40 is such a fundamental number (i.e. – the forming of an embroyo over 40 days, Moshe receiving the Torah in 40 days, the necessity of having 40 seah in a Mikvah) Chazal didn’t want to disturb the number of 40 by saying 39 (which is to close to the fundamental number of 40) in turn mandating chazal to use the term 40 minus 1.

From The Editor – Fear And Beauty

The conflict between fear and beauty is an underpinning of our faith.

The question is: Is fear greater than beauty or vice versa, or are they equal? Furthermore, what happens when the worlds of fear and beauty collide?

The Vilna Gaon has an astonishing chiddush relating to Shlomo HaMelech’s words that we recite every Friday night in Eishet Chayil: sheker hachen vehaevl hayofi esha yirat hashem he tethallel – charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised” (Proverbs 31:30).

The Vilna Gaon says when cloaked with fear it’s the “beauty” that should be emphasized. I believe the Vilna Gaon is touching on the split that exists in the universe.

Basically, there’s the spiritual realm, where fear is a fit, and the physical world, where beauty stands out.

According to the Vilna Gaon they are two opposites of the same coin. Beauty alone has no purpose. Fear alone is substantial, but without fusing it with beauty, the fear doesn’t reach its highest potential.

In a physical world, beauty has a central place and must be acknowledged. Man can partake of this beautiful world and make himself feel beautiful in whatever way that manifests itself, and if one does that in conjunction with being fearful of God, the beauty is praiseworthy

It may be argued that Shlomo HaMelech is not expressing the thought elucidated by the Vilna Gaon, for Shlomo himself downplays beauty based on his conclusion to Ecclesiastes (12:13): “Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the duty of all mankind.”

Shlomo HaMelech, who lived a life of splendor and abundance, split beauty and fear into two separate components rather than fuse them together with the singular intent of de-emphasizing beauty. (And since Ecclesiastes was likely his last book written, it can be said that it was his final word on the matter.)

A third scenario is when fear and beauty collide in real time. This is found in the famous Mishnah ofPirkei Avot (3:9) where we read, “Rabbi Yaakov said: One who is walking along the road and is studying [Torah], and then interrupts his studies and says, ‘How beautiful is this tree. How beautiful is this plowed field,’ the Scripture considers it as if he bears the guilt for his own soul.”

Why such a harsh punishment?

Based on the aforementioned thoughts, it may be argued that neither according to the Vilna Gaon, who believes beauty and fear can co-exist harmoniously, nor according to the second interpretation of Shlomo HaMelech’s words, that fear supersedes beauty, can there be any allowance for an act of fear (studying Torah) to be contemporaneously disrupted by an utterance of beauty (“How beautiful is this tree”).

Though fear and beauty can complement or supplant each other, fear cannot be simultaneously interrupted by beauty. (On a side note, it may be argued that another explanation of the harsh punishment for interrupting Torah learning to praise a tree is that it was a tree, after all, that was used by the Malach HaMavet to halt Dovid HaMelech’s learning, which caused his death.)

Along the same lines, someone once revealed a fascinating insight to me. One would think that one’s pull to the negative side of beauty – that is, beauty for its own sake – would begin with the physical instruments of the body, namely the eyes. As we know, the eyes covet and the body trails.

Interestingly, the Torah doesn’t present it like this. InShema it says (Numbers 15:39), “Do not stray after your hearts and after your eyes that you may fulfill all of my commandments.” The Torah first recommends not to go after the heart and only then the eyes. Logically, it can be argued the verse should have said not to follow the eyes and then followed up with the heart; after all, it’s the eyes that cause the action.

But something comes before the eyes to determine one’s behavior, and that’s the heart. There is a control mechanism that precedes the superficial action of mere looking. Indeed, while lust is caused by the eyes, the heart has the first say in how to proceed.

Fear and beauty are two realms that split this world. Fusing the two together is our spiritual challenge.

Taken from a previously published op-ed in the Jewish Press.